Not me, first you!

Ego, such a small word yet makes a big difference in our lives. Ego hides a real personality and shows off a disguised attitude.
 Do you think ego may spoil relationships? Yes, they deteriorate it. The moment ego comes in your way, you tend to lose people, emotions related to them and also relationships with them. This happens because a person then lacks initiative to take a step towards working out a relationship. They fail to understand that ego is going to ruin everything with a person who would be there during their ups and downs of life.
Ego is like a street traffic, it stops you from reaching your destination so use a diversion and move on to the right way. Value people and relationships, don’t let your ego ruin it.Ego should be limited to your self-respect, the moment it goes beyond, you become arrogant and It is often said that “arrogance might destroy you completely”.

When ego is alive, the good person within you is dead. Because you have nothing in your hand except ego. The day you destroy it, you’re heading towards a happy life.

So take away an obstacle of ego and have a different perspective towards the world, it is much beautiful without an ego.
“Remember, a three letter word EGO can destroy a twelve letter term called RELATIONSHIP.”




There are wounds which you can see bleed, which leaves a mark to make sure you don’t forget about that tragedy. They are very much painful but not more than the wound which are not seen but felt by the only person who’s hurt.
There might be a chance that the person who cares for you the most, loves you till infinity feels the same pain that you are going through. But what if you don’t want that person to feel anything for you, instead you want someone else to feel that way ?
It hurts, doesn’t it ?
Life teaches us a new lesson everyday we just need to make sure that we understand those vibes. Let me ask you, is time the only medicine to heal those wounds ?

You might say yes! But if you try sharing that pain with the person who cares for you the most or the person whom you want to care for you. Might heal that pain. It makes much more easier for the time to recover from those damages, which holds you down from everything you want to do.
Now its upto you whether you want to heal your wounds or want to wait for another storm to hit you.

Scars are the part of our life.
It’s boring to have a normal life
Every mistake we commit gives us a new experience
Don’t waste it..!!

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One more day without you being by my side.
People say love is something that heals the wounds which are not seen by naked eye, it’s something makes a person feel alive, it’s also something which revives a dead person. They even  say that when you see the person you love you forget about the people around and when they sit besides you, you feel like some butterflies flying around your belly and you smile like a complete idiot but that smile happens to be the world’s beautiful smile ever seen.
Is that true?
Because what I feel is, A mild and cold wind blowing by one side touches my cheeks and leaves nothing but a strange idiotic smile on my face.
It felt like that for quite sometime but then there was a guy in your life. A guy you always thought about, A guy you always wanted to fit in the incomplete part of your life. Days past and i was back there waiting for you at the same spot but you never showed up. And when you did you only wanted to talk about that guy for hours or in other ways almost all the time while we were  together. Even when we had a walk, you speak about the time you spent with him and listening to your talk with the prettiest smile on your face makes me hard to walk, it feels like every step i take with you drags me away from you.
Strange!! Isn’t it?
Also every step I took hurt me more like a thorn passing through the feet. And the worst part is you don’t even notice any of it because you are so busy with the memories you had with him.
I wonder if you remember the memories we had.!!!

Don’t worry baby, those are the words that bleed, the memories remains untouched.

‘Fasting’ – belief or compulsion ?


As per the quote “people who fast pleases GOD even more than people who just pray” or “people who are close to god” or any other similar meaning related and connected to god

correct ?


The most awaited month(Ramzan) has arrived. People fast the whole day and pray to their allah in the evening at a particular time and completes their fast(Roza) by eating delicious fruits, yummy !! AHHA..!! home made recipes, Mouth watering dishes…yuummmm!! and the whole place is decorated with lights brings the place back to life and variety of clothes available to shop and..uhhh.. okay, getting back to the topic. They purposely don’t eat whole day just to show their dedication,respect and faith. Not only Muslims even Hindus fast at some particular day and show their faith towards god. And they think he is going to help them, look after them and people with different demands and needs. If Fasting brings the solution and takes away all our problems, make us rich and stuff then the poor people who don’t get to eat whole day and their night instead of places decorated with lights are as similar as nightmares . They pray to god but they are not rewarded with food in the evening, they are not rewarded with delicious food. Why so ?

Even they are fasting, Infact our fast is nothing as compared to theirs, So why they are not rewarded with anything ? and why do people think that keeping fast can bring a change in their life ? why is fasting compulsory for them ?