Every human being wishes to be accepted in the society but they are considered criminals in our Indian society. They are no different from us. They’re neither abnormal nor infected by some disease.
They didn’t choose to get bullied in schools and colleges, They didn’t choose a life where they can’t speak their heart out. Do you really think that they want such a life, when in reality they don’t even know what puberty exactly means.
How do we know that we are attracted to opposite gender, did we even think about that for a moment? We need to understand that it’s not their choice, it’s in their hormones. It’s already so difficult for them, and we make it worse, because there is nobody out there to listen to them. As a result they prefer being behind the closed doors and don’t come out as who they really are, pride is out of the question. Where do you think they must be sharing their secrets, problems and emotions? Scary, isn’t it?
Instead they decide to finish everything in the blink of an eye rather than to live as a burden to every single person around them, you know why? Kyuki “log kya kahenge?” (“What will people say?”)
They came, they saw, they loved But they couldn’t conquer!
Why do we fall in love? Why do we even have to fall for it?
Why can’t we just love somebody unconditionally and rise in love instead of falling!! I know that does not make any sense but….
Falling always hurts, yes it does! There must be something that makes our heart getting attracted to somebody. There has to be a reason because of which we give priority to a particular person out of billions in the whole lot world.
We love, we trust, we expect, we promise, we confess, we do everything to maintain a relationship. Aren’t these the basic requirements for any kind of a relationship we have?
Don’t say or promise things without thinking about it, it might affect people in many ways if you forget those promises. All i have to say is….
Say it only if you mean it,
Not everybody is lucky to have it.
Make those words count!!
I am sorry..!!
These were the three magical words which were used to either maintain a good relation with our loved ones or to break that same relation with them. Or I could say it was used to be that way. It is also said when we hear something pityfull or about someone’s loss. But we are not going to discuss about that, I am sure I don’t need to explain it because it is pretty much obvious.
So……….as always let me ask you, did you ever apologize to someone for a sinful mistake and repeated it more than twice maybe ? Because you know that the person will anyhow forgive you not because he/she wants to but she/he loves you enough to forget about it and give it a fresh start.
I bet you have.
By creating such situations you are not only playing with the person’s heart but you are making them realize not to trust even our loved ones.
Apologizing somebody needs lots of courage and it also requires guts to admit a mistake.
There was a time when people meant and were truly sorry for what they have done but now its more like a free pass to do it again and again until and unless the person completely breaks down and never ever willingly get up and trust their loved ones again..!!
Be the one who forgives people,
Not the one who demands that forgiveness.
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Tomorrow is unpredictable. Nobody knows actually what is going to happen next, do you ? Nah, i don’t think so.
Tomorrow can be the most beautiful, realistic, amazing, unbelievably awesome day of our life or maybe it could be the worst, horrible, unwanted day of our life.
Can we change our tomorrow ?
Or is it the day which remains unchanged no matter how hard you try to make it the better day of your life ?
Yes, that’s right, its all upto you. You make your tomorrow. You are the one responsible for the tomorrow you’ve been dreaming about.
We don’t even know who is going to stay with us till tomorrow or who is going to stab you from behind and leave you just because they don’t have anything interesting to do in their life.
And then, there is a tomorrow where you expect something from the most important person in your life and you are like “c’mon just say it, god damn it.”
But you be so naive that you forget about everything and you just want things to get back to normal.
Now it is all upto you to decide whether
You want your tomorrow to be as you want or you want others to make that decision for you.!
CHOOSE VERY WISELY.!
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Its been 4 years that i’ve discovered myself, a part of me which was hidden deep inside my gut and now its beginning to explode. And its also been 4 years since i’ve discovered for who you really are. The vibes which surround me the moment you appear in a blink of an eye. But you know what the best part is ? I always think i’m over you, i hunged up on you infact i don’t need you, but then its you and your smile which takes me to the world that everyone wishes for, a place so amazing which bring a spark of hope and light in my world of darkness. And When you leave at the end of the day there is this pain without a wound, like a bang without a sound, like tears without water.
You have actually become that oxygen to my body which couldn’t survive without breathing. Those fights which were never supposed to happen are the only reason that i am alive today as i keep telling my stupid heart that
we are not meant to be together you are not the perfect one for me. The scariest part of all this is that if you found out how i feel for you, i’m afraid to loose you again.
It is not at all scary in the dark when you are besides me, but it kills me with horror when you are not around me.!!