Stick to what you say!

Why do we fall in love? Why do we even have to fall for it? 

Why can’t we just love somebody unconditionally and rise in love instead of falling!! I know that does not make any sense but….

Falling always hurts, yes it does! There must be something that makes our heart getting attracted to somebody. There has to be a reason because of which we give priority to a particular person out of billions in the whole lot world. 

We love, we trust, we expect, we promise, we confess, we do everything to maintain a relationship. Aren’t these the basic requirements for any kind of a relationship we have? 

Don’t say or promise things without thinking about it, it might affect people in many ways if you forget those promises. All i have to say is….

Say it only if you mean it,

Not everybody is lucky to have it.

Make those words count!!

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Not me, first you!

Ego, such a small word yet makes a big difference in our lives. Ego hides a real personality and shows off a disguised attitude.
 Do you think ego may spoil relationships? Yes, they deteriorate it. The moment ego comes in your way, you tend to lose people, emotions related to them and also relationships with them. This happens because a person then lacks initiative to take a step towards working out a relationship. They fail to understand that ego is going to ruin everything with a person who would be there during their ups and downs of life.
Ego is like a street traffic, it stops you from reaching your destination so use a diversion and move on to the right way. Value people and relationships, don’t let your ego ruin it.Ego should be limited to your self-respect, the moment it goes beyond, you become arrogant and It is often said that “arrogance might destroy you completely”.

When ego is alive, the good person within you is dead. Because you have nothing in your hand except ego. The day you destroy it, you’re heading towards a happy life.

So take away an obstacle of ego and have a different perspective towards the world, it is much beautiful without an ego.
“Remember, a three letter word EGO can destroy a twelve letter term called RELATIONSHIP.”

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“I QUIT!”

These two words are never meant to be spoken or to be thought of. Quit from what ?
Your life, Your existence, Your problems ? There might be lots of reasons for you to quit but atleast think about it this way, if you had to quit why would you be the one in that particular situation ? Ever thought of it ? Umm… I really don’t think so..!!

There are people who are unable to see this beautiful world but the darkness, and there are people who can’t hear the melodious tunes but the dead silence. So why do you think its just you bearing whole world’s problems ?

If you are living a life and reading this blog right now then thank god you don’t have major problems like I mentioned above. You don’t need to live your life to impress people around you, you just have to live for people who matter to you the most. I’m not telling that you don’t face difficulties in your life but every difficulty has its own unique solution. At times it might be tough to take decisions but c’mon face it, without those ups and downs our life would be simple and boring.

So if you ever plan to say
“I QUIT !”
Just take a deep breath and say
“Nah! Not today.”

Don’t let them say you are foolish,
Instead make them guilty to even think that you are foolish.

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That feeling !!

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Our heart beats as much as it wants, loud and clear if it wants, slow and un-noticed if it wants to. It doesn’t wait for the brain to give any command or follow as per the head wants it to when it comes to feelings.
But that innocent heart doesn’t know that the world is not the same as it wants it to be. Its cruel enough to make it feel like its his fault that it beats for some people. Even the cut with a knife pains less than those marks and injuries caused through words.

It takes years to develop trust in someone but it takes just few moments of action to break that trust into pieces.
Any relation in this world whether it be a relation of a mother and a son, two soulmates or best buddies they all act like a thread but when one betrays the other, one cheats on the other or the one hurts the other with a thing which doesn’t have bones, cuts that thread into two and when we try to join that thread again it leaves a knot and makes sure you remember that knot.

Don’t ever hurt the one who cares for you the most because you might loose the moon while counting those stars !its hard to believe that you don’t understand me after all these years. I won’t forget this time even if you apologize for a million times.

You broke me into pieces,
Still can’t believe it
Its hard to breathe
Im on my own now !!

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Healing

There are wounds which you can see bleed, which leaves a mark to make sure you don’t forget about that tragedy. They are very much painful but not more than the wound which are not seen but felt by the only person who’s hurt.
There might be a chance that the person who cares for you the most, loves you till infinity feels the same pain that you are going through. But what if you don’t want that person to feel anything for you, instead you want someone else to feel that way ?
It hurts, doesn’t it ?
Life teaches us a new lesson everyday we just need to make sure that we understand those vibes. Let me ask you, is time the only medicine to heal those wounds ?

You might say yes! But if you try sharing that pain with the person who cares for you the most or the person whom you want to care for you. Might heal that pain. It makes much more easier for the time to recover from those damages, which holds you down from everything you want to do.
Now its upto you whether you want to heal your wounds or want to wait for another storm to hit you.

Scars are the part of our life.
It’s boring to have a normal life
Every mistake we commit gives us a new experience
Don’t waste it..!!

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I AM SORRY..!!

I am sorry..!!
These were the three magical words which were used to either maintain a good relation with our loved ones or to break that same relation with them. Or I could say it was used to be that way. It is also said when we hear something pityfull or about someone’s loss. But we are not going to discuss about that, I am sure I don’t need to explain it because it is pretty much obvious.
So……….as always let me ask you, did you ever apologize to someone for a sinful mistake and repeated it more than twice maybe ? Because you know that the person will anyhow forgive you not because he/she wants to but she/he loves you enough to forget about it and give it a fresh start. I bet you have.
By creating such situations you are not only playing with the person’s heart but you are making them realize not to trust even our loved ones.
Apologizing somebody needs lots of courage and it also requires guts to admit a mistake.
There was a time when people meant and were truly sorry for what they have done but now its more like a free pass to do it again and again until and unless the person completely breaks down and never ever willingly get up and trust their loved ones again..!!

Be the one who forgives people,
Not the one who demands that forgiveness.

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Tomorrow ?

​Tomorrow is unpredictable. Nobody knows actually what is going to happen next, do you ? Nah, i don’t think so.

Tomorrow can be the most beautiful, realistic, amazing, unbelievably awesome day of our life or maybe it could be the worst, horrible, unwanted day of our life.

Can we change our tomorrow ?

Or is it the day which remains unchanged no matter how hard you try to make it the better day of your life ?

Yes, that’s right, its all upto you. You make your tomorrow. You are the one responsible for the tomorrow you’ve been dreaming about.

We don’t even know who is going to stay with us till tomorrow or who is going to stab you from behind and leave you just because they don’t have anything interesting to do in their life.

And then, there is a tomorrow where you expect something from the most important person in your life and you are like “c’mon just say it, god damn it.”

But you be so naive that you forget about everything and you just want things to get back to normal.
Now it is all upto you to decide whether

You want your tomorrow to be as you want or you want others to make that decision for you.!
CHOOSE VERY WISELY.!
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The TRUTH is……..

Its been 4 years that i’ve discovered myself, a part of me which was hidden deep inside my gut and now its beginning to explode. And its also been 4 years since i’ve discovered for who you really are. The vibes which surround me the moment you appear in a blink of an eye. But you know what the best part is ? I always think i’m over you, i hunged up on you infact i don’t need you, but then its you and your smile which takes me to the world that everyone wishes for, a place so amazing which bring a spark of hope and light in my world of darkness. And When you leave at the end of the day there is this pain without a wound, like a bang without a sound, like tears without water.

You have actually become that oxygen to my body which couldn’t survive without breathing. Those fights which were never supposed to happen are the only reason that i am alive today as i keep telling my stupid heart that we are not meant to be together you are not the perfect one for me. The scariest part of all this is that if you found out how i feel for you, i’m afraid to loose you again.

It is not at all scary in the dark when you are besides me, but it kills me with horror when you are not around me.!!

I hear you !

           Before I start with my blog. Let me ask you something, does misunderstanding acquire a place in our heart all by itself or we are the one who lets them destroy our lives? Umm…! Leave, I bet nobody would be able to answer it honestly.!
           Anyways I know, I am the one who is responsible for that betrayal, I am the person who could not make you happy when you deserve all the happiness in your life, I have agreed to the fact that I don’t deserve something priceless like you! I have my own reasons to believe that. Nobody could change the fact not even my soul who is buried deep inside the grave of my heart which is trying to convince me that nothing wrong has happened yet! Stop right where you are.
             But its too late for me to look back but,
             My heart believes that you are still here standing by my side.
             My heart knows you want to say something but you aren’t. I don’t know why!
Just one thing to say

JUST IMAGINE IF YOU SAID ALL THIS TO HIM/HER RATHER SAYING IT TO YOURSELF. LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH MORE EASIER, DON’T YOU THINK?

I’m listening to the every beat your heart beats, you just need to say it so, just say it….

            
          

Still waiting…

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One more day without you being by my side.
People say love is something that heals the wounds which are not seen by naked eye, it’s something makes a person feel alive, it’s also something which revives a dead person. They even  say that when you see the person you love you forget about the people around and when they sit besides you, you feel like some butterflies flying around your belly and you smile like a complete idiot but that smile happens to be the world’s beautiful smile ever seen.
Is that true?
Because what I feel is, A mild and cold wind blowing by one side touches my cheeks and leaves nothing but a strange idiotic smile on my face.
It felt like that for quite sometime but then there was a guy in your life. A guy you always thought about, A guy you always wanted to fit in the incomplete part of your life. Days past and i was back there waiting for you at the same spot but you never showed up. And when you did you only wanted to talk about that guy for hours or in other ways almost all the time while we were  together. Even when we had a walk, you speak about the time you spent with him and listening to your talk with the prettiest smile on your face makes me hard to walk, it feels like every step i take with you drags me away from you.
Strange!! Isn’t it?
Also every step I took hurt me more like a thorn passing through the feet. And the worst part is you don’t even notice any of it because you are so busy with the memories you had with him.
I wonder if you remember the memories we had.!!!
But……..

Don’t worry baby, those are the words that bleed, the memories remains untouched.